November 17, 2012

The Other Side of the Story

            There is this girl who is now famous in YouTube (not just in YT also in other media means) not because of her talent but, her yelling the lady guard. Actually, I really don’t care about the issue, besides it doesn’t affect me and I should have stayed that way. But I choose not to. I am not saying that I am affected and I am trying to be famous here, but I pity her. Is it fun to laugh at someone’s fault? I’m not saying I never did that before, but now that I am educating and continue on learning, I realized that some people look only to what they want to see. It’s unfair for those people who are being the laughing stock.

            I am not saying that I was on her side, but have you heard the other story or the other side of the picture? No one did bother looking and listening to the other side, right? Because some people believe that, “What they SEE is what they GET!” It’s pathetic! I can’t believe people nowadays are still leaving in the past. With all the technology and all the development of the world, they are still stock in the old age. I thought having these technologies will make us smarter, well I guess that’s not the case here. I am not saying people are becoming dumber than ever, but how some people act look like it.

            I am a human right conscious, and I don’t like people with minute minds. I am very open-minded, so I always want to hear and look at the other picture of every story, of every issue. I make sure I don’t have biases. It may sound odd to those people who love to judge and those who always like to call names to people, well, I am not and I will still stand for it. If others don’t care about what other people’s feel, let me tell you, I DO CARE.

            I am always saying that before you could judge someone try to fill his/her shoes first. There is nothing wrong by making assumptions but sometimes, what you think your assumption is was right and you spread the wrong idea. What if she was right? What if she was really provoked by that lady guard? See, no one will know because no one cares to listen. Some guards are hitting us below the belt. I know that, I have experienced it.

            Think about it. We differ on how we carry the situations in our life. Some take it light. But some, just can’t, especially if you are not use to the action taken by others to you. Even I would get angry if I am in her position and if the lady guard really did something that would really affect me.

            I am just saying what’s on my mind, accept it or not, I don’t care. All I am trying to say is, we cannot just stick to being one-sided, even in love we want it both ways to meet us halfway.

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