Privacy

            We are all humans with the right to express, vote, interact, to showcase our talents, to be famous, to be happy and above all, to love. We cannot dictate someone’s heart to not love or to love only what we think he/she can love. They have their own thoughts on how and who to love. What we can do for them is just support and advice them properly, but we are not allowed to command them to whoever they choose to be with.

            I’m writing this post for each and everyone to read what my insights are about idols that are dating. I don’t have biases in this particular issue, we are all humans, commits mistakes, get dumb and sometimes we do silly things that other people cannot understand. We have this particular time in our life that we have to take a break and escape from all the pressure in this world. To run from expectations towards us and to be back to whom we really are. To lock ourselves in a world we created where we are the powerful ones; who has the ability to redo everything, to change a particular event in our life and to make it more efficient to us.  We all have those certain period of time which we really do sort of things.

            Even an average individual needs his privacy. We don’t want to be exposed to anyone at any rate, but sometimes we cannot avoid those situations which will make us transparent. Being private is not as simple as being secretive, though it may count, but we want to be private because we want something to remind us who we left off to be able to reach the particular achievements in our life. Our personal life is an example of private information; a simple name is enough for everyone to call you but not to know you. We want our personal life to be private because we are afraid that we might get hurt from the insensitivity of the world. We want to at least have our life where we can be us.

            If idols are dating, and as fans, sometimes we get hurt knowing who they were dating, then why torture yourself by updating about it? You know that it hurts you and still you continue on upsetting yourself. Idols are just personalities, they are no gods and goddesses, they can date who they like to, they can be silly as an average person too and lastly, they also want privacy. The fact that they want to keep their partner's identity unrevealed is to protect them; to protect their love ones and also to protect their fans. The way they keep it unannounced means they don’t want others, especially fans, to get hurt, to feel abandon and to feel betrayed. I don’t understand why we need to make the issue a big deal.

            If you are an average person needs space for his/her own reason, then why can’t an idol do that? I know, they are entertainers and such, but would you be happy if you have no privacy? If only they have a choice and reset everything, they will surely want to be someone who can love freely without harmful comments and rumors. A person gets angry while hearing a rumor regarding him/her, and then Idols can be angry too. You just have to be open-minded. And sometimes you need to wear someone’s shoes to understand how it feels to be him/her.