The Other Side of the Story

            There is this girl who is now famous in YouTube (not just in YT also in other media means) not because of her talent but, her yelling the lady guard. Actually, I really don’t care about the issue, besides it doesn’t affect me and I should have stayed that way. But I choose not to. I am not saying that I am affected and I am trying to be famous here, but I pity her. Is it fun to laugh at someone’s fault? I’m not saying I never did that before, but now that I am educating and continue on learning, I realized that some people look only to what they want to see. It’s unfair for those people who are being the laughing stock.

            I am not saying that I was on her side, but have you heard the other story or the other side of the picture? No one did bother looking and listening to the other side, right? Because some people believe that, “What they SEE is what they GET!” It’s pathetic! I can’t believe people nowadays are still leaving in the past. With all the technology and all the development of the world, they are still stock in the old age. I thought having these technologies will make us smarter, well I guess that’s not the case here. I am not saying people are becoming dumber than ever, but how some people act look like it.

            I am a human right conscious, and I don’t like people with minute minds. I am very open-minded, so I always want to hear and look at the other picture of every story, of every issue. I make sure I don’t have biases. It may sound odd to those people who love to judge and those who always like to call names to people, well, I am not and I will still stand for it. If others don’t care about what other people’s feel, let me tell you, I DO CARE.

            I am always saying that before you could judge someone try to fill his/her shoes first. There is nothing wrong by making assumptions but sometimes, what you think your assumption is was right and you spread the wrong idea. What if she was right? What if she was really provoked by that lady guard? See, no one will know because no one cares to listen. Some guards are hitting us below the belt. I know that, I have experienced it.

            Think about it. We differ on how we carry the situations in our life. Some take it light. But some, just can’t, especially if you are not use to the action taken by others to you. Even I would get angry if I am in her position and if the lady guard really did something that would really affect me.

            I am just saying what’s on my mind, accept it or not, I don’t care. All I am trying to say is, we cannot just stick to being one-sided, even in love we want it both ways to meet us halfway.

Privacy

            We are all humans with the right to express, vote, interact, to showcase our talents, to be famous, to be happy and above all, to love. We cannot dictate someone’s heart to not love or to love only what we think he/she can love. They have their own thoughts on how and who to love. What we can do for them is just support and advice them properly, but we are not allowed to command them to whoever they choose to be with.

            I’m writing this post for each and everyone to read what my insights are about idols that are dating. I don’t have biases in this particular issue, we are all humans, commits mistakes, get dumb and sometimes we do silly things that other people cannot understand. We have this particular time in our life that we have to take a break and escape from all the pressure in this world. To run from expectations towards us and to be back to whom we really are. To lock ourselves in a world we created where we are the powerful ones; who has the ability to redo everything, to change a particular event in our life and to make it more efficient to us.  We all have those certain period of time which we really do sort of things.

            Even an average individual needs his privacy. We don’t want to be exposed to anyone at any rate, but sometimes we cannot avoid those situations which will make us transparent. Being private is not as simple as being secretive, though it may count, but we want to be private because we want something to remind us who we left off to be able to reach the particular achievements in our life. Our personal life is an example of private information; a simple name is enough for everyone to call you but not to know you. We want our personal life to be private because we are afraid that we might get hurt from the insensitivity of the world. We want to at least have our life where we can be us.

            If idols are dating, and as fans, sometimes we get hurt knowing who they were dating, then why torture yourself by updating about it? You know that it hurts you and still you continue on upsetting yourself. Idols are just personalities, they are no gods and goddesses, they can date who they like to, they can be silly as an average person too and lastly, they also want privacy. The fact that they want to keep their partner's identity unrevealed is to protect them; to protect their love ones and also to protect their fans. The way they keep it unannounced means they don’t want others, especially fans, to get hurt, to feel abandon and to feel betrayed. I don’t understand why we need to make the issue a big deal.

            If you are an average person needs space for his/her own reason, then why can’t an idol do that? I know, they are entertainers and such, but would you be happy if you have no privacy? If only they have a choice and reset everything, they will surely want to be someone who can love freely without harmful comments and rumors. A person gets angry while hearing a rumor regarding him/her, and then Idols can be angry too. You just have to be open-minded. And sometimes you need to wear someone’s shoes to understand how it feels to be him/her.

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