Love is…

          Well it’s been a while since I post a word here and I miss it.

How are my readers? Well if you asked me, I’m very fine. I just came back to my world and right now I can’t wait to share this quote I read earlier this day. It was about love. Not just love but love as a philosophy and what I believe. It’s just that this quote is strongly a stand my beliefs about love and how to love.

I get this quote from a book (a novel) written by Pamela Simpson: MIRROR, MIRROR (Chapter 3, Page 21 and Line 3&4)

“Children often forbid themselves to think about things that are too painful”

-Janice the Hypnotherapist of Alexandra Wyatt

If you were to ask me what love is, I’ll just say love is undefined. But if you’ll ask to describe love I’ll surely say that love is like a child. You probably are asking me why now. J

Love for me should always know when to stop in order to prevent heartaches. As for me, I always prevent myself from giving in my all. I don’t like to get too much painful so I tried to restrain and focus on how I will forget things that made me so. Like the said quote, “Children often forbid themselves to think about things that are too painful”, they tried to get so many attention to forget what the pain is. By getting so many attention doesn’t mean you get to the point that you want to be the center of attraction, I don’t mean it like that. What I was trying to say is abandon the one person that always drags you down. I know, it’s not that easy but like a child, he/she knows when to let go and how to move-on.

I also believe that in love you should be like a child. A child will loves himself more than anyone else. I don’t mean that you have to be selfish, what I mean is that we should not forget how to love ourselves too. Humans fall in love and become blinded by it, they forget the real them and they do stupid things. I don’t think it is better to give love to someone who doesn’t care about you anymore. A child will turn its back and find someone who can give him/her attention and appreciation him/her needs to feel that he/she is not alone. I don’t love because I just do; I love because I wanted to feel the love that will make me feel complete.

I forbid those emotions that for me are not needed and I forbid moments that are painful enough to remember, because I don’t want to bring back the tears that I shed. I forgive then forget those people who bullied me; I forget them because I want to treasure them as my acquaintances. I forget the grudge because without them I will not be this person. I love like a child that is why I am forgetting those lies and heartaches that someone causes me. I love like a child because I love myself more than I love those certain others. I am always being a child who knows when to give-in and when to let go.

I will love, forgive and forbid myself. Love to be loved. Forgive and be forgiven. And lastly, I’ll forbid myself from hurting others so that they will not hurt me. You must say that I am the kind of person with “me-first-personality”, yes I do. In terms of love I do. Because I told myself that I am not here to be a trash, to be hurt or to be abandon, but I am here to be myself, to be love and to be cared.

If you want to get what you want, you have to give it to yourself first. 

JGoodnightJ