In the End...

          We live in a world full of pressures, expectations and discrimination.  We always strive to survive, sometimes, to be someone they want us to be and sometimes we stepped on others to be on top. But at the end of the day, we reflect and ask, "Am I being fair?” fair to others, fair to someone we love and lastly fair to ourselves. Those questions are sometimes hard to answer when you know to yourself that you are not doing what you must do. Be fair to yourself before you become fair to everyone.

            People tend to judge you but do they really know what are you going through?  Do they even look inside you and saw you slowly tearing apart? They don't; most of them only look at the surface, what they see is what they think you are, but what they don't know is what you really are. In life, we chose what would benefit us the most, what is convenient to us and what will make us happy. That is what I sometimes do. I think that what I am doing will not harm anyone around me, I chose it because I want others think that I am more than okay and that no one will  have to worry of what I have been going through.

            Nowadays, a man who is caring, thoughtful and loving is not that rampant. We are seeking for someone so romantic and so sweet that would make us feel that we are the only person in this world and that we are their life. Of course, we are living in the generation of technology and saying "I Love You" is as simple as saying "Hello." It makes me sad to think that, "I Love You" loses its meaning, its real thought.

            I realized that life is really too short to take things for granted. If you can make or say it today, do your best to do it without hesitations, without expectations and without knowing what would happen. Life itself is a gift that we should live for what we can do best, for what we think we do best and for what we have to share to others. Life is not simply living what is lacking, but completing the missing blanks to make us a better person. Challenges will make us fall but we always have the option to stand tall and prove them that we can be someone they don't expect us to be or maybe surpass their expectations.

            Past will always be there and it's not a problem that we sometimes look for it to continue learning and never do the same mistakes again. Past is our guide to live in the future, our teacher to make our mistakes correct and to never fail again.

            Lastly time is everyone’s enemy. It will make you frown when this is not yet the right time or make you surprise in an unexpected time span and will make you regret when time passes you by. Time is precious, if you manage it properly, time will pay off somehow. You will be given all the time you can have in this world, what your duty is, to manage it correctly.