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| I miss this guy |
It’s just
that---this day I’m actually heating-up because of those bashing and attacking that my colleagues are doing. You know as a fangirl you should always support
your favorite celebrity, but it doesn't mean that you also have to bash others
as well. How can you call yourself a fangirl if you are acting so immature
about the way showbiz industry do things?
We all know
that showbiz or entertainment have this kind of world---like turning your heads
upside down. I mean entertainment are not always the way you want it, there are
times that you have to accept the fact that your celebrity is no longer popular. Things aren't permanent. As fangirls we wish that our favorite
celebrities are always on the spotlight and we want them to be the main
attraction in this kind of business, but we sometimes disappoints ourselves
when things are not in the way we want it.
Yes,
personally, I get hurt for every single time that others are bashing with my
celebrity. It felt like you want to just run after those people who don’t know
how it hurts to be like us, fangirls. I felt bad when things are rough with
them. I felt broke when they are being violated but I don’t want to go on and
just be an immature fan doing childish things. I’m not a naive fan; I know how
things work in this world, in this industry.
I was not
lifting my chair up but it’s just that, we can support them by being who we
are. We don’t need to fight each other, fandom to fandom. That’s not what our
celebrities want. Look at it this way; our celebrities are so close together,
like they hang-out together, chat together and even sweet with each other. While
their fans are bashing each other, violating each other’s right and hurting
each other. Isn't ironic, our celebrities bond together and we, fans are
bashing each other?
Be more like
a fan than a freak. Act like a fan not a gangster. Support them as a fan not to
destroy their image. Sometimes what their fans are doing can affect their
career. They get antis because of how their fans act. Aren’t you being ashamed
of how you always message them of those encouraging words yet looking down on
other celebrity? The thought of how you are very careful of how you took care
of your idol yet very clumsy on how you treat the other idol.
Think about
it fellow fangirls; we are millions in numbers and all we want is to get those
awards that our idols are also wanting. If we really are their fan we should
not waste our time doing those childish stuffs, like kids bullying others. We should
use our strength, ourselves and our numbers to be part of those award that they
want to have. It is not just an achievement for them but also for us. Enough with
those fanwars and everything, why don’t we have a cup of tea sometimes, talking
about how great each others’ fandom and celebrities we are engaged to, having those
friendly activities will make us be very happy about everything.
To those who
are not yet in the fandom world, you might not understand how hard it is but it
is full of fan activities. You might think of how weird we are but I personally
grew better when I become a part of this fandom world.
I want to be
always in the optimistic side of everything even if things are in its worst. I don’t
know why but whenever I think of how fandom world, how being a fangirl help me
become me, I felt like I take an ecstasy and was very hyper. You know, I find
being a fangirl really the other me, I mean in this fandom world I broadly see
things and I widely understands how to become a person that is really me.
The person
that doesn't know how to lie to herself, the person who is very much open to
look at the other part of her being, I become me without having any
insecurities because of the fandom world, you guys, made me feel like I belong here,
like I am part of a one very big family. Thank you for welcoming me in this family;
you are all the colors in my life.
If we all
just be rational, we can still get what we really want for being a fangirl for
our celebrity. Like in economics; if you and your friend found a hundred peso
bill and he said that you will get a peso and he will get the 99 pesos, if you
are a rational thinker you will agree in whatever sharing he will proposed. Rational
thinking means that it is okay for you to have whatever as long as you get
whatever. The point is “At least I got something” same thing with us, even if
it is painful to accept the fact that our celebrities lose, at least they are
on the nominees list or at least they are nominated and on the top 10 or
whatever their rank is, at least they are on the rank. The most awards that
they can get are the support that their fans are giving them. When their fans
are there they will continue on shinning and there are always these people that
will never let them down. =)
*Sorry for
the long post I got there, hope it made sense…*
