USER!

It took me a second to realize that everything is just a nonsense topic. It is no new at all. You leeches, fame-users and b*tches should just stay where you are or I'll hunt and eat you up like what is on the song of a famouse Hallyu singer.

Things like these will always be a part of the industry; users are so rampant and they drag you to hell then climb on top with the fame they gain from you, I know some artist who did this, I know you guys do too. It is funny to think that those people they've use didn't even notice  their true means for them. They will ride on you until they get what they wanted and leave you as if nothing happened.

Even if stupidity is free, doesn't mean you take all of it in you, it must be prevented before it affect you and the people around you. If they learned that you are stupid and easy to be trick, even if you think it is just kindness you gave them, they will take it all from you. Because you  gave them the chance to use you, and to take advantage of you.

Doesn't mean that when stupidity is on trend, you also be stupid along with the others. It is okay to be stupid but it should be on the positive side. We should not tolerate this. This makes our life miserable as well as the people around us.

P.S.
  It takes hard-work and patience to be successful. Stop being a burden. There are some with inabilities but still succeed, you can too.

There's nothing good at comparing

Twitter Status:

@sharmaine1004: "As long as the band itself didn’t make it a big deal then there’s no point on making a fuss."

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I think things like comparing groups to another is really not a new. I’ve heard sorts of issues regarding comparing bands to another new bands or to their labelmates but as long as the band itself didn’t make it a big deal then there’s no point on making a fuss.

Comparing is done by the fans, the audience and the people who’ve seen them. But to its irony, the bands that are being involve has a close relationship a sunbae and dongsaengs, sometimes not what you see is what you really get. It is more on the unseen or to the untold stories that the fact itself is proving it to the public/ we tend to conclude and make stories without facts, even if we do have, we don’t really know the story of every photos or every videos.

You don't want him to go, but you constantly reminding him to leave...

Afternoon status on Twitter.

It's actually about the countdowns; I realized it later, though. Well, I am not saying that the countdown itself is wrong or a pressure but it is really disturbing to think that you don't want someone to leave but you’re counting the remaining days of him before leaving. I find it illogical.

I did it once and it is really unreasonable to make it, since all you want to remember is the days that you both shared but not the days that you are counting. It's like you're excited for him to leave rather than getting sad or at least missing him for the time he is going to be gone. I base it on my experience and I am too stupid to countdown for him and now what I always remember is the time I told him, "Last day."

See, it's like reminding yourself that you only have 1 last life before the game is over.

For You and for your Bias who will enlist soon

Let's support one another and wait patiently from the moment they get enlist until the day of their discharge. Time flies and I know it is hard to wait for someone who is dear to our heart, 2 years is not a joke and for us, who wait, it is not as fast as it could be, but when you are not counting you will be shock to know that finally it's time to be together with our bias again, we will finally see him.

Let's not be bother for whatever that is not yet confirm, let's wait for him to confirm it, let's built a good foundation of trust with one another.

Our Biases might not know us individually but as long as they say their thank you to us in general, it is a big acknowledgement for us. Let's not betray them, rather let's encourage them and fight for them as they do their best to be a better person they want themselves to be and the person they want us to show.

"BIAS! Be Careful! Saranghamnida! Fighting!"

-Goodnight-

It Takes a Man and a Woman (movie review)

Thinking of how you've totally change in a single mistake is not your fault. Thinking of how you wanted to go but can't, is really not a choice. And here, finally you did come but the damage had been done and returning when you are in pain is a hard challenge for you to be perfectly normal again. You can't just sleep and in one single night, when you wake up you've change.

What happen to Lyda and Miggy in the past is a different story in It Takes a Man and a Woman. This is reality, "Rainbows will never form without a little rain." Same things went to test Lyda and Miggy's  fate, temptations happened to Lyda in You've Change My Life when the character of Rayver Cruz appear as Macoy, Lyda’s high school best friend and now someone who is having a one-sided love for her,  it didn't surpass Lyda and Miggy. Then, Miggy's temptation is in this movie, where Isabelle Daza as Belle, Miggy's ex-girlfriend came and went back with him.

Last April. 31, 2013, 2nd day of It Takes a Man and a Woman directed by Cathy Garcia-Molina and distributed by Star Cinema and Viva Films, starring John Lloyd Cruz and Sarah Geronimo, I and my family watch it on free-seating. We are having a hard time finding a seat for 6 and then we were given seat at the upper last left row. My father is a fan of Lloydie and Sarah, well it is a rare occasion that even in his 54 he still gets the teenage dream whenever he watch them together, we've followed them since A Very Special Love, You've Change My Life until It Takes a Man and a Woman. And every film is a different story. You really can't expect what is going to happen next unless you watch it from the beginning to end.

It's a movie of reality, everything happens in the real world. You love and fall, then happy moments, then complications and eventually fall-out then break-ups, of course heartaches but soon you recover and decided to continue living for your family. But our world is not that big, after all it is round and there are always possibilities that halfway between you and your mending heart here he comes again and all that barriers you put up will fall and you will realize it wasn't enough. You tell yourself to move-on but you haven't really accepted the fact that it is not as simple as you say it. Those that happen in the past should stay in the past, of course not, because pause is the beginning of the future without it the future is a mess.

I would like to emphasize the virtue that I've learned on this film; Acceptance, to Forgive, and Give a Chance. Acceptance, what Lyda's mother did to her father, she said that she realized that even if he did something she still love him. Second, to Forgive is something that should be done after you accept the fact that there are no perfect relationships in this world, we all fall and learn then love again then tripped, it's a cycle of love, of life. I also like to quote Lyda's mother, it is the best, I think, line of the film when Lyda ask her on how to forgive: "Handa ka na ba? Kase desisyon yan." (Are you willing? Because it is a decision.) Last, Give a Chance, give him/her the benefit of the doubt. You shouldn't judge. What you should do first is to listen, listen to an explanation, demand for it, and if you are not satisfied that is the time you ask for time to think about it.

Also the story is not just about moving on, about making others suffer or having many antagonists, the story is not all of those. The story is about knowing what is really important, what we should chose when we are in a midst of confusion, is it the dream we had to achieve or chose between it and someone we love. The options are between your family and the one you love, a real life story when your family needed you and at the same time your love one is asking for you to be with them. I think this movie is a masterpiece. The 3 films are a masterpiece.

And an A plus factor here other that the story of Lyda and Miggy is the role of Joross Gamboa, Matet de Leon and Gio Alvarez, they lighten up the mode of the denial ex couple. Joross, as John  Rae really is a effective comedian, whenever he do his puch lines evryone in the cinema laughs and they are like 3 little pigs, with Zoila(Matet) and Vincent(Gio), they always lightens every drama in the story.

So if you haven't watched it yet, you have the idea of laughing at the same time crying. And that time I am amazed by the long lines of people outside the cinema doors, good thing we've done watching it.

P.S. Finish it until the end, you might miss it, if you leave early :)

Random #3

I don’t say that they are my life. It’s illogical to say it without any facts. I rather say that they live in me. They are my role model; someone that inspires me. It is more appropriate to say it than claiming that they are my life. Though, it is somewhat a figure of speech.

Your life is what you are living, that doesn’t mean that you live because of them, you live because you wanted to.

Save me...

Yes, I am tired… so tired that I could not be able to move a muscle. That I thought I would not feel any pain, but I guess, I am still a human. After turning my heart into stones, after, tearing my chest open, why am I still the one crying? I can’t believe this. I know… I should not be like this. But how am I supposed to do that if I see myself shattered in pieces.

I haven’t been asleep for a week; I’ve been up all night to make my work done in time. Why didn’t they notice that I am too busy to be bothered, while all they do is laugh and laugh none stop, watching gag shows?

I am lonely. I am just hiding inside the shell and now slowly it rots and here my true form will soon be revealed. Someone should save me from being exposed. Because the more they see my true form, the more I get isolated. The lonelinest is increasing and slowly eating me up. I am holding on a tiny and unsteady rope, swinging above the darkness of the cliff. My tears are slowly falling and I want to let go.